-If you have issues from your past, such as sexual abuse, neglect, your family's failure to protect you, certain gender types or some family members, etc. please, seek help. Your child is the one that will suffer. A child should never have to carry the scars of sexual abuse. And if you have suffered at the hands of a sexual predator, I am sorry, that you were hurt. However, you must protect your children. Please do not let the trauma of your past lead you to fail to protect yourself or loved ones.
No child or adolescent should have sex; children should be children, protected and loved.
No adult wants to have sex against his or her own will. No child or adult wants to be physically restrained, tortured, threatened, terrorized or blackmailed by a sexual predator. Sexual predators know who to terrorize and how to terrorize their victims.
Speaking from the depths of horrors from my own past it is an unspeakable sadness that I hold when I know how I was forced to do things against my will. All present saw but at the same time dismissed my sickness, my wounds and behavior and did nothing to save me. I write from my own knowledge and the knowledge of others who suffered so horribly as a child and as adults. I see the physical and the emotional wounds. These are the things that can be stopped, my knowledge does not have to become the first hand knowledge of others. Sexual predators can be stopped.
We all have a right to inherit our bodies. We have a right to our lives, to blossom into who we want to be. And we all have the right to decide who and when we choose to share our persons with. Children have a right to their innocence.